I'm Scared I'm Not Doing Right
I'M SCARED I'M NOT DOING RIGHT.
I hear this all the time from my clients and this is one I had to get over big time in my business.
I used to always think that there was a right way to do things in business. The right way to post to Instagram, the right way to structure a funnel so it converts, or the right way to write a Facebook post so clients would convert.
Now I'm not totally dismissing the details but I'm calling bullshit on this fear.
This fear is just another thing that wants to cripple you, keep you in resistance from doing the WORK like showing up on social media, keeps you playing small by not asking for the money that you want, and stops you from creating because you AREN'T DOING RIGHT.
As if there is a "right" way to do business, welcome to the wild fucking wild west, where people build online businesses (even if your business isn't online, I bet all of your marketing is) and guess what happened in the wild west?
WHATEVER THE FUCK THE COWBOYS WANTED.
Because we're all trying to figure it out and this arena is moving faster than any of us can put together a Facebook ad and sell it on a webinar.
How are you suppose to show up in your business?
In the way that makes you fucking fierce, makes you feel like a fucking bad ass, in the highest level form of thinking you can achieve and be.
If you're worrying about "doing it right", the only way to do it right is to do it in the way YOU WANT.
Because lord knows by the time you figure out all the "right ways" to do it, that time will be over and there will some new "way" to do it.
Now I'm not dismissing the details, little things like making sure you have a call to action on a Facebook post, having images that attract your ideal client, and using the right Instagram hashtags.
Yeah that shit can matter.
But not even close as much as if you're having fun, if you're showing up consistently, if you're always operating from the highest level, from the best bad ass version of yourself you can be.
Because when you show up like "Umm, hi I'm here? Am I doing it right? Does anybody give a shit?"
GUESS WHO likes that?
NOBODY. YEAH THAT SHIT SUCKS.
DO IT YOUR WAY, IN A WAY THAT EXCITES YOU, IN A WAY THAT MOTIVATES YOU TO GET UP IN THE MORNING AND POST A FUCKING WAY.